Surviving infidelity: It's sad. So many people cheating on each other and causing a lot of heartache in the process.
If you are married, it's even harder and having children just complicates the issue.
So, you have discovered that your spouse is cheating on you.
What to do next?
At first, you will find it difficult to believe.
You'll be angry, you won't be able to control your emotions and worst of all, you will feel pain... a lot of it.
If possible, find out the real reasons for your spouse's infidelity, since that can help you save your marriage or relationship.
If you need to forgive and your partner is willing to admit their mistakes, then forgive.
We all make mistakes, so why not give your partner a chance?
If you have reached a point where the relationship or marriage has ended, you have to go on with life.
There is no use for hating that person with an insane passion, since it is the worst thing you can do.
Just remember, you might also have contributed to your spouse's infidelity... you never know.
The best thing you can do is to accept what happened and move on.
Make it a point to never discredit your ex lover or spouse and be friends with them... wish them well for the future... really be sincere in your efforts... I know, it's not easy but if you do that, love and happiness will return to your life.
Sooner than you think.
The law of the universe states that what you do comes back to you, whether it's good or bad (or something to that effect), so the more love you send out, the more love will return to you.
If hate is the only signal you send out, that's probably what you will get in return.
Surviving infidelity could be difficult or not. Make your choice today.
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